No, you’re right.
What I’m saying is a couple options for how many emails you’d like to get would be nice. Some players need an email every day to remind them to check in.
I already check in 3-4 times a day at least so I don’t need emails for new messages, just to let me know a game started. Probably could be a premium feature to have different levels of email communication, but I don’t think it needs to be an email for every single message. In big games that would be over 20 emails a day for some people.